Free Women of the city cultures, eating & drinking
Through the books of Gor we are given a few glimpses into what we are
told is proper, normal behavior for free women when eating and
drinking.
This scene, in Kajira of Gor, in the city of Corcyrus, is one of the most
enlightening as a slave explains how a free woman is to eat and
drink. I quickly left the couch and went to the small table, on which the tray
reposed. I did not wish to displease Ligurious.
He was the sort of man who was to be obeyed, immediately and perfectly.
I loosened my robe and sat down, cross-legged, on the cushion before
the table. I picked up a piece of the yellow bread. "Oh, no, Mistress," said the girl, putting out her hand.
"That is how men sit. We are women. We kneel."
"I will sit," I told her.
"Mistress understands, surely," said the girl, in misery, "that
I must make reports to Ligurious, my master."
"I will kneel," I said.
"That is much more lovely," said the girl, approvingly.
I then began to eat, kneeling.
...
"Mistress' drink is cold," said the girl. "Let me have it reheated or fetch
you a fresh one."
"No," I said. "It is fine." I lifted the small, handleless bowl he had used
the word in two hands. I was excited that she had said "fetch." She was
the sort of girl who might carry or fetch for a Master or a Mistress. "Mistress," said the girl. "You are a woman. Drink more delicately."
I drank from the bowl.
"Yes, Mistress," she said. "That is more feminine." I then realized, even more
profoundly than before, bow deeply sexuality must characterize and penetrate
this culture. The differences between men and women were to be expressed
even in their smallest behaviors. What a significant and real thing it is
in this culture to be a man or a woman.
"This is warmed chocolate," I said, pleased. It was very rich and
creamy.
"Yes, Mistress," said the girl.
"It is very good," I said.
"Thank you, Mistress," she said.
"Is it from Earth?" I asked.
"Not directly," she said. "Many things here, of course, ultimately
have an Earth origin. It is not improbable that the beans from which the
first cacao trees on this world were grown were brought from Earth."
"Do the trees grow near here?" I asked.
"No, Mistress," she said. "We obtain the beans, from which the
chocolate is made, from Cosian merchants, who, in turn, obtain them in the
tropics."
I put the chocolate down. I began to bite at the yellow bread.
It was fresh.
"Perhaps Mistress should take smaller bites," she said.
"Very well," I said. I then began to eat as she had suggested.
I was a woman. I was not an adolescent boy. Again, even in so small a thing
as this, I began to feel my femininity keenly. Too, again, I became very
sensitive of the depth and pervasiveness of the sexuality which might
characterize this world. Men and women did not even eat in the same way. "Exceptions can occur under certain circumstances, of course," said
the girl. "Mistress might, for example, in the presence of a man she
wishes to arouse, take a larger than normal bite from a fresh fruit, and
look at the man over the fruit, letting juice, a tiny trickle of it, run
at the side of her mouth."
"But why would I wish to arouse a man?" I asked.
The girl looked at me, puzzled. "Perhaps the needs of Mistress
might be much upon her," she said. "Perhaps she might wish to be taken
and overwhelmed in his arms, and forced to surrender to him."
"I do not understand," I said, as though horrified.
"That is because Mistress is free," she said.
Kajira
Here, in a scene in the city of Ar, free women delicately put tidbits
beneath their veils.
Some lift their veils *somewhat* to drink.
Some low caste women drink through their veils. The crowd was now engaged in various pursuits, no fixed center now
holding their attention. Several were going about seeking the odds
Merchants, several of whom wandered in the stands, but others of whom
kept their tables at the foot of the stands, on the sand itself, almost
under the nets beneath the rings. The hawkers of candies and such were now
crying their wares. I heard a slave girl wheedling her master for a pastry.
Free women, here and there, were delicately putting tidbits beneath their
veils. Some even lifted their veils somewhat to drink of the flavored ices.
Some low-caste free women drank through their veils and there were yellow
and purple stains on the rep-cloth.
Assassin
Again, in this scene at a private dinner party of friends in the city of
Vonda, free women lift their veils to drink. "I lift my wine to the Lady Florence of Vonda!" said the Lady
Melpomene.
"We lift our wine to the Lady Florence of Vonda," said the guests.
All then drank, save the Lady Florence, who, smiling, did not lift her cup.
Free women, drinking, commonly lift their veil, or veils, with the left
hand. Low-caste free women, if veiled, usually do the same. Sometimes,
however, particularly if in public, they will drink through their veil,
or veils. Sometimes, of course, free women will drink unveiled, even
with guests. Much depends on how well the individuals are known, and who
is present. In their homes, of course, with only members of their
families present, or servants and slaves, most free women do not veil
themselves, even those of high caste.
Fighting Slave
Unfortunately even though the story continues quite a bit at this dinner party,
we are given no more glimpses of the free women eating.
Also unfortunate is that during the splendid dinner party scene that
occurs in Nomads of Gor, in the city of Turia, in which we meet the lovely
Aphris of Turia, we are not offered any further insight on this topic.
Aphris descends from her quarters to join her guardian and his guests well
after the dinner part is over and the men have been drinking paga for some
time.